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Frankly, I find the ‘Who Viewed You?’ feature on any of the hook-up apps homophobic, and here’s why. Let me set the scene for you, bear with me. There you are looking for a third for you and your other half to have some fun with. You see “Submissive” who, [read more…]

I’ve never owned a Fleshlight. I’ve never seen the need. My hand and a bit of lube seem perfectly good at doing what’s needed when I’m alone, so why would I bother? Well, after a conversation with a friend and wanting to try something new I decided to invest in [read more…]

Bear Lee There, burlesque performer extraordinaire and one of the co-founders of this site, give us an insight into some of the questions they can asked all the time as a performer. As a gay, male, bear burlesque performer I get asked so many questions about performing and getting naked [read more…]

A guest contributor who wishes to remain anonymous sent me this story and I thought it was not only too good to leave out but so good it should be the first and memorialised as such! Any names and/or locations mentioned have been changed to protect people.     Years [read more…]

Myself and Forrest head to testing every three months. We have to so we can stay on Prep. But going to the clinic, for prep or whatever, can be intimidating yet getting tested is so important. So many STIs are so easy to catch and although prep won’t stop the [read more…]

Since moving to Ireland many years ago I’ve discovered that it has a rich and diverse culture. None more so than in it’s LGBTI+ community. Chatting with people has been interesting. The stories they’ve told about coming out, some positive, some negative, are always told with what feels like a [read more…]