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Consent is sexy. You might not think so but I promise you it is. Consent really is fucking sexy! Imagine there’s something you want to do to your sexual partner and you’re not sure if they’ll like it or even let you do it. So mid session you go ahead [read more…]
Since moving to Ireland many years ago I’ve discovered that it has a rich and diverse culture. None more so than in it’s LGBTI+ community. Chatting with people has been interesting. The stories they’ve told about coming out, some positive, some negative, are always told with what feels like a [read more…]
Bear Lee There, burlesque performer extraordinaire and one of the co-founders of this site, give us an insight into some of the questions they can asked all the time as a performer. As a gay, male, bear burlesque performer I get asked so many questions about performing and getting naked [read more…]
Although I’m not the most romantic person in the world I’d like to think I make a good impression on a first date. As ‘they’ say you only have one chance to make a first impression. I must have done something right as almost twenty years after my first date [read more…]
Frankly, I find the ‘Who Viewed You?’ feature on any of the hook-up apps homophobic, and here’s why. Let me set the scene for you, bear with me. There you are looking for a third for you and your other half to have some fun with. You see “Submissive” who, [read more…]
There is something quite erotic about a man with a huge cigar in his mouth glaring down at you as he’s ordering you to service him and there’s a wealth of these images online if that’s what you’re in to. As an ex-smoker I’d still kill for a smoke when [read more…]
THE EARLY YEARS Fortunately for all Americans the 1960’s, 70’s and then 80’s led first to greater sexual freedom and liberation – and then to greater sexual honesty. The internet boom of the last decade solidified those gains to the extent that there can likely never really be a return [read more…]
Gay Alcohol Addiction: An Epidemic Being a gay man or lesbian in this country is not easy. It’s meant facing alienation, isolation, and oppression. Today, it also means coming to grips with our own feelings of being so out of the closet that people know everything about your gay life. [read more…]
1. Poor parenting causes homosexuality Parenting does not have an effect on sexual orientation. All the theories about overprotective mothers are myths because 90% of children with overprotective mothers are straight. This correlates with the general theory about the percentage of gay people in the population. Putting pressure on parents [read more…]
Although there are a difference of opinion about the stages of coming out it normally goes through the following. Like with everything else the academic scholars in gay-studies disagree on some of the finer aspects, but in general the stages I mention here are almost universal. I have seen theories [read more…]
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